Not Only One Big Day

I have come to the decision that your wedding day is not just an 8 hr event, no it is a saga starting with the proposal and then includes every aspect of planning and preparing for the big day the discussions and negotiations about the big day are all part of the weddingI am finding that the journey is almost as important as the day. And I really believe that the preparations about budget, cake, food, and vendors all needs to be discussed and agreed upon with your future spouse. The wedding is not over until the last thank you note is written, the last paragraph is pasted in the scrapbook, my last thank you gift is sent, and my last bill is paid in full.

So I am trying to think about my beautiful wedding as not about one perfect day but the experience of a lifetime. A long experience that starts with a declaration from Mr. Rogue proposing his commitment to me and for me to accept and encompasses all the actions and decisions to get to the final moment, that includes family, friends, and my network of bridesmaids. A beautiful moment like this.