You Can’t

I have lots of faults that I am constantly battling with. There is a part of me that I love and that I am great being, and then there is a part of me that I would rather change. For instance I am rather bull headed. Once I get an idea in my head and once I decide to execute there is very little anyone can do to dissuade me. Sometimes this comes in handy because I truly am relentless when I want something. People have even called this one of my best assets, the fact that I am single-mindedly determined to achieve my goals.

But more often than not I find that this relentless drive without thought or care of my surroundings can leave me with regrets that I should have stopped and reassessed along the way. I find it gets particularly bad when someone says I cannot do something. Like oh you cannot do that or you cannot succeed that way, that you can’t do that attitude just makes me dig my heels in further and fight harder. So if you want me to do something the secret is to tell me that ‘you cant’.